As the title suggests, I have several things which I want, need almost if you will in my life but have no bloody clue as to how to get it.
These are not material possessions particularly, more actual aspects of my life which I deem to need, improve on etc.
One is in terms of my working life. I'm not about to slate my job or anything daft like that because for all its faults as with any job, there are some really good parts to it. This includes the people I work with or indeed have worked with over the years. I have met some truly cool people and have retained long lasting friendships as a direct result, always a bonus.
Additionally, I have the opportunity to really help and make a difference. Don't get me wrong I'm not involved with the high end of policing or something along those lines but customer services. However in terms of this, I still feel that I can make a difference in the lives of those people that I speak to and try inheritantly to do so.
The main issue which I have is that I am an ambitious person and have aspirations to do more, to be more. I'm not sure currently what the best course of action is to achieve my goals though and this leads me to become occasionally quite frustrated. Like I say, I have no issue with what I do, I just want to do more.
Another aspect of my life which I really want to change is my very personal circumstances. I have been single now since the start of the year and whilst I am content enough, I really feel that this needs to change. Don't get me wrong, it doesn't mean I'm about to rush into anything blindly and go mental in the process.
The main problem I have here is the fact that I have zero confidence in my ability to just go out and chat away to the ladies. I know full well that I'm hardly the worst looking of people or anything like that, but confidence is always a key and in a situation like being out "on the pull" as it were, I flounder. I also have absolutely no ability of reading whether someone likes me whatsoever. I have been told over the years several times lines like " That girl over there seems to quite like you, why don't you go talk to her" etc, but never ever believed it as I just cannot see the signs of this myself.
Then of course we have the fact that I seem to be susceptible to people messing me about too. Over the past few months I have had this a couple of times whereby I, as well as others are led to believe that things are fine, everything is all rosy and happy days lie ahead, only for the rug to be pulled out from under me. Not very good at all and just causes me hurt where it isn't necessary, this in turn will probably cause future issues as I'll find it difficult to trust someone else later down the line.
I'm hopeful on both parts that I can work out just how I can get what I want soon and then make the progress I need to fulfil it. Fundamentally, I don't want much from life, just to be happy and both of these areas are critical to doing this, its just a matter of how to do it thats the key.
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